Done Attitude

Why I am sharing this? There is logic behind this. Today I got out of my depression after a several days. I looked too boring past few days. No party, no work. Just sleep,sleep and sleep. Most of the time I wasted on it. But learnt and acquired various lessons in those days. As you know mind doesn’t stop to think. It keep on thinking. Which way is defined by you.

There is tremendous power in our mind. We can complete any task in a period of time. Even in constrained hours. It may seem impossible one. But I can guarantee you once you pressurized yourself. It will give you the output. May be a success or miserable failure. Just we have to accept. Training again and again your mind will give you the desired output.

I Will share my story of why I left the done attitude and got trapped in the depression. It took me a month to overcome all these things. My refusal to work on any thing. Even simplest one. I reject even going to grocery shop. Why is this so?

Was I nullified ?

The true answer is Yes. I was totally nullified. I didn’t know where to go? What to do? Every action of mine confronted with assumed failure before trying it once. I lost my conscience.

So I gave up everything and it turned it to fear of failure ,depression and become pathetic to move myself. Why so disgusting I was behaving? The answer is quite simple. I lost the energy, hope and all my learnings. Moreover the attitude to try.

So, I started doing the things which I love most. I become used to watch lots of movies, tv series and short movies. I read a lot related to my problems I was facing. I tried to understand why I am struggling so hard in this phase. Is there any solution or will I be like this for whole life.

I kept on thinking and wanted to change myself. So I use to read a lot. I found lots of answer to lot more problem I was facing.

Many times I thought to kill myself. I hate my life. I wanted to become something and what I was becoming is not What I want. So, it’s better to give up. I planned to go several big spiritual places/hills and will never return to this world. Or go to some unknown places where nobody can find.

But One thing that kept me alive from so dearth of thought was that I wanted to add values to my family before all this. So a feeling of connected comes in between. That keep me in touch with my parents.

I used to talk a lot and share all those things which I felt in my head. They were too tensioned, I knew that this would happen. But I have no other way to work out. Bcoz I can’t share all the feelings with other people than my mom. I talked to friends but they were less experienced. So what to do. I choose that way.

I did it for no reason than to improve my attitude to become a done attitude.

I have to start thinking like I can make that thing happen. Even without too much resource like before. Which I lost after failure after failure. I knew It’s not easy.

But things started changing once I got more interactive with my roommate. I got the same energy which I lost long. So I would say talk too much at the time of depression with whom you spend your time. Either he likes it or not. But vomit out what you think. That will improve your ability to take action. And will be able move towards done attitude. Moreover your depression.

Another story from Michael Jordon’s Life

“Michael Jordan’s parents once thought to check the ability about How far his son’s journey can be.

He gave a old t-shirt and told them to sold it in the market for $2. He gone to market and sold it and gave his father $2 in the evening.

Next day again his father called Michael Jordon and told him sold this new T-shirt of $2 to $20. He said ok. I can do that. He arranged some stickers of famous icon and put it on them, take it to the in front of the rich school in his nearby place. Some rich kid liked the idea of having a T-shirt with these stickers of different icon and paid him $20. He returned happily to home and paid $20 to his father. His father get excited how a child can sold a T-shirt of $2 to $20. It’s incredible. My child has some special quality. I need to check once more if he is really special child and how much.

This time he buy another T-shirt for $2 and told michael to sold it for $200. This time task was difficult. His father knew that. But Machael was not aware about this. After thinking a lot. He got an idea that in his town a famous actress is on visit. If somehow, I can take her autograph I can sell it for $200. he took his Journey and reached there. There were thousands of people. It was not easy to take a autograph of her on the T-shirt. But he has to. Bcoz his father has told him to sold the T-shirt. Somehow in the wild crowd he was able to manage to take autograph on his T-shirt. Later on when he came out of the crowd. He sold that T-shirt not for $200 but for $2000. That was huge sum. When He put that sum in front of his father. He get confused. How a child can do this. But after knowing the story he was proud to have son like him.

You will create some history in the future and that was proved when he entered in the court of basketball. He is now known for his excellance. “

In short He has a done attitude. He never said this is not possible. He always find a way to do that and finally did it.

So, My dear it’s not easy to have done attitude. You may feel too much alone and worthless sometime. But believing in positive energy will keep you attached to complete within the time. Keep on finding the positive word towards your goal. Doers can make that possible.

So Just do it.